Wednesday, 16 March 1994 Dear S, The Big Day looms over the horizon; tomorrow I must tell Leah.  Heavy.  I am not looking forward to this, it’s not only the end of the relationship, but most likely the end of the friendship as well, which I am really going to miss.  There are going to be a lot of changes I will have to become … Continue reading “We always become what we loathe most.” Who said that?